Um ... I have absolutely nothing against you, Stellar, but I find your post unnecessarily patronizing.
Most of the users on this board are (ex-)members of another message board called Expecting Rain. About a month of three ago - when this place was basically reduced to Pinhedz + the 2 people that regularly read his posts - there was some turmoil over at Expecting Rain. This was mainly cause by a dispute between Uzi and one of Expecting Rain's moderators.
During the many discussions that followed upon the banning of Uzi from expecting rain, the moderators of that place started to point to this site as a possible alternative for al those who were unhappy with Expecting Rain's policies.
Well, not really an alternative, expecting rain members were actively and repeatedly encouraged to come over here to bitch, curse and whine.
This dubious promotion of ATU lead to a significant increase in members and activity on this board. Up until that point, the activity had been very low to almost non-existant. Whatever technical issues the board was having were pretty irrelevant. Nobody was using it intensly anymore anyway - expect maybe for our dearly beloved wiseman , Pinhedz.
With the increase of members, people started to complain more often about the lack of some technical issues - editing, PM'ing and such.
Admin Pillow and LaRue have always replied kindly that they weren't able to solve some of these problems - either because they lacked authoritisation of simply because they didn't know how to solve them.
Since then a lot of things have actually been dealt with! Most of the technical issues are gone, the board is more user-friendly now than a few weeks ago.
Admin Pillow & LaRue have mentioned occassionaly that neither you nor Frances were visiting this board anymore - not to insult the both of you, just to explain that they couldn't ask for your assistance either. Some jokes probably followed, but I can't remember reading anything really vile.
As for members complaining: I think we're all pretty kind to each other.
A lot of the 'fights' you might find on the board are just a silly attempt at cyber-fun. Members might be fighting each other harshly in thread A and be best friends in threads B - G.
A lot of the newcomers to our board explicitly praised the very loose atmosphere between members.
EDIT:
1. I have been able to edit this post! Hozana be praised!
2. All frequent ATU-users have always defended it as a nice place for intelligent, funny and relaxed people over @ Expecting Rain. We will never accept this place to become a 'talk behind the back' room of Expecting Rain. In fact, people who tend to discuss the events over there a bit too much over here are kindly asked to share some more interesting things with us.
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Le bon sens est la chose du monde la mieux partagée; car
chacun pense en être si bien pourvu que ceux même
qui sont les plus difficiles à contenter en toute autre chose
n'ont point coutume d'en désirer plus qu'ils en ont.